Founder Stephen Nash

My goal with any product, program or client consultation is to help a man find a lasting, meaningful relationship with a truly great woman. In order to do that, he must become a truly great man. I define greatness as a life lived with purpose, power and enduring passion. Thus, my focus on lifestyle.
It is within a man’s lifestyle that his life’s purpose finds expression, where he challenges himself to grow and evolve and where he learns to socialize with integrity. I cover social skills, personal style and dating advice at length in my products, podcast and blog. But, after working with many men for over a decade, it is abundantly clear that no lasting change can occur unless his lifestyle is consciously designed to both reflect and reveal his inner values and to challenge him to grow and evolve on a daily basis.
By making lifestyle the focus of our work, a powerful foundation is built which supports other more tactical techniques such as approaching women, flirting, connecting and escalating physically, dating strategies and progressing into long-term relationships. No great woman will ever enter into a relationship with a man unless his world expands hers. My question is: does yours naturally do that?

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How to Get a Girlfriend e-Book

Stephen’s philosophy is really important for guys to hear – every possibility is open for you and you have the possibility to live an extraordinary life.

— Neil Strauss, Author of “The Game”


How to Get a Girlfriend e-Book

How to get a Girlfriend

  • Learn the 7-step process to a great relationship
  • "How to" social skills from meet to close
  • Also available for Kindle, iBooks & Audiobook

Stephen’s philosophy is really important for guys to hear – every possibility is open for you. and you have the possibility to live an extraordinary life.

— Neil Strauss, Author of “The Game”

Natural Attraction Course

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  • 7-day audio program for dating mastery
  • Advanced social skills (+ hear Stephen demo)
  • Plus: personal style, lifestyle & social circle skills

Stephen has done a fantastic job putting together the “Natural Attraction” audio program. The program offers a 7 day, step-by-step plan for men of all backgrounds and demographics to not only learn to be attractive to women, but to take control of their lives building a positive, empowering lifestyle which magnetizes women and success.

— DJ, New York, NY

Lifestyle Arts Podcast


  • Weekly men's dating and lifestyle podcast
  • Interviews with dating & relationships experts
  • Available on iTunes & other major platforms

Stephen has consistent and easy helpful tips for guys who may be struggling with dating and/or other areas of their lives. Couldn’t recommend it more!

— Gevurtz, iTunes review


Transformative One-on-One training with Stephen Nash

Easily the best part of my job is my 1-1 client work with men. I love it. I love passing on what I have learned over the last 12+ years of my journey. And, I know my training works because I live it. I have been married for over 2 years, and in love with the same woman for over 5 years.
One important note from the start: I don’t teach “pick-up”. I used to, but don’t anymore. I honestly don’t believe it helps a man to find a long-term relationship. Now, I do coach men on how to approach women socially, how to flirt, connect, escalate etc. I just don’t frame this as “pick-up”.
My client work boils down to working simultaneously in three compatible areas: lifestyle, social skills and personal style. All of my work is “bespoke” meaning it is customized to you and I only work with 6 men at a time in either New York or Southern California. There are no cookie-cutter solutions to one specific man’s dating challenges. So, the process begins with a free 30-minute call between you and I. On this call, I guarantee you that you will receive massive value from me and I will be able to determine if you and I are a good fit. If not, I will gladly refer you to other coaches who are.
To get started, please fill-in the form to the right and a member of my team will reach out to schedule your complimentary 30-minute consultation with me.
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How to get a girlfriend begins with understanding attraction


If you are wondering where to start, this article is for you. Here, I lay out my top 24 tips for meeting and attracting great women, dating them, and forming lasting, healthy relationships.

These tips are in order from the beginning steps of meeting new women all the way to sexual escalation and more. Includes video + multiple other resources. 


first date ideas


What are my top 7 tips for having a wildly successful, fun first date with a woman? Why is "dinner & a movie" a terrible first date idea? When do you go for that all-important first kiss?

Having a plan is crucial to having a killer first date. In this article, I lay out my perfect first date strategy which allows for an effortless and fun evening out on the town.




Wouldn't it be nice to have a simple, elegant "test" to see if a woman is ready for you to kiss her? And, would you like to know HOW to kiss her so that she's left wanting more? 

This article answers both of these questions, and arms you with an extremely simple and intuitive strategy so that you are always confident when making your move.