Understanding when and how to touch a girl says a lot about a guy.
As dating tips go, it might seem like a small deal. It isn’t.
If you touch her arm, her hand, her shoulder, her face…this is all what we insiders often call “kino”.
Now, there are good and not-do-good types of kino. We want to focus on the good type – playful kino.
(Kino is shorthand for when we touch a woman.)
Done when you first meet a woman (like after the first 5 minutes, not immediately) and on that all-important first date with a woman, this can be pure gold.
It demonstrates that you are comfortable and confident, AND that you are willing to take a risk and touch her – NOT inappropriately, but in a playful, cool way.
It also demonstrates that you are able to be dominant, and enter her space. When you comfortably enter her space, AND comfortably leave it, you build…TRUST.
Here are some examples of how to touch a girl early in your first interaction or on your first date with her:
- Thumb wrestling
- Slightly nudge her as you walk
- When making a point, touch her hand or arm (very common)
- If she says something funny, give her a high-5
- Again, if she says something funny or witty – give her a slight push on the shoulder (sorta like Elaine from Seinfeld…just nowhere near as hard)
See the idea? It’s FUN, and you show her that you are FUN if you do this.
But, as important, you build trust – physically.
She begins to view you entering her ‘space’ as a good thing and something she need not fear. If you are comfortable, she will feel comfortable too.
Don’t you want the women you like to enjoy themselves, and not fear you entering their physical space?
Have fun with this tip, but don’t go too far. A little contact here goes a long way.
Start very small, and remember – less is definitely more.
Of course, the most important physical “move” you will make is that all-important first kiss. Want to know how to kiss a girl AND learn my patented “kiss test” for knowing exactly when to make that move? Click the link and check it out.