The 98% game: Healthy, lasting relationships tend to evolve from a thriving lifestyle & healthy social circle…and not from “pick-up”.
Lifestyle & social circle is the REAL “game” and if you want to get a girlfriend, this is where your focus should be.
Pick-up is fun, useful, and a great way to practice socializing, BUT not a good way AT ALL to meet healthy, attractive, interesting women.
I would even call pick-up a rites of passage for ALL guys to do. I wish for every man reading this post the experience of seeing a woman you want to meet, approaching her, attracting her, connecting with her and getting her phone number and having a date with her.
This experience changes your world view.
It shows you that you actually CAN go for what you want. That you CAN take action in a self-governed direction. That you CAN pursue women.
But, here’s the trick.
It can’t matter that much. Why?
Because it probably won’t eventually mean anything. It will be an experience, a worthwhile one for sure, but it will remain an experience…and will likely never become anything more than that.
You will have your date, and either you or she will decide that that was “nice”. Or, she won’t call you back. Or, you won’t even call her. Or, you’ll have a few dates with her and possibly even hook up.
But, the chances of a cold approach leading to an actual RELATIONSHIP are very, very, very slim.
Like anorexically slim.
So, it is GOOD for guys to learn to approach women. If you only get practice out of it…like flirting, baiting, storytelling, connecting, leading etc – then, it is a GREAT experience. Or, if you simply learn how to stand on your own 2 feet in front of a woman, then GREAT.
But, if you’re someone who is serious about getting good with women – and not just good at approaching women – but good at landing real DATES with women, and striving to meet a great woman for a relationship…then you need to focus on something else TOO.
It’s called the 98% game.
If most relationships happen via social circle and lifestyle (which is a FACT, OK?), then doesn’t it stand to reason that you should focus on that…even maybe a little?
A BIG turning point in my evolution into a guy who naturally attracts women was when I stopped doing cold approaches, and started growing my social circle and lifestyle.
In fact, most of the guys that I know who are good with women don’t even do cold approaches! They view it as silly and frivolous. I disagree on principle, of course. But, their point is well-taken…and should be by you.
The cultivation of lifestyle and social circle is THE way to meet women for a consistently healthy and active dating life.
And if you’re looking to get a girlfriend, then this is imperative man.
Get good at the 98% game, start meeting women, start dating, and get a girlfriend.
Been that way for years, and it aint changing now…
If you are interested in learning more about how to get a girlfriend, and want to review my top 24 tips for doing so quickly and successfully then click the link and begin your journey – on the right foot, in the right direction.
Good luck!
