Men are confused.
Oh, and the ones who have been exposed to the varieties of dating/seduction/pick-up methodologies out there, are even MORE confused than those who haven’t.
I want you to simplify, simplify, simplify.
Instead of worrying about “attraction”, “generating attraction”, “creating attraction” and all of the other tips that stem from that concept…spend your time doing something ELSE instead.
If you become attractive, you won’t NEED any of the silly gimmicks that supposedly “create attraction”.
Becoming attractive means focusing on actual growth as a man. It means pointing a laser-like focus onto the idea of “autonomy”. It means finding real direction and meaning in your life.
It doesn’t mean becoming George Clooney, Brad Pitt or Gerard Butler – that’s “Hollywood Attractive”…it simply means, become yourself – the most confident, happy, driven version possible.
This will require you to do things that scare you. You won’t grow unless you do things that strike fear in your heart.
So, instead of trying to learn all about ‘creating attraction’, take a risk and do something that scares you.
Why? Well, here’s a little secret:
Women are only interested in who you are, not in what you say.
So, you can spend precious hours and days learning all the latest and greatest “things to say” and it won’t make a difference at all in the real world.
Taking real risk and pursuing meaningful direction in life is the FASTEST way to dating success. Women are attracted to men who are fully ALIVE.
Become an attractive guy by living an attractive life. This means getting out and DOING things, experiencing the world, and taking some chances.
Who knows, you might just meet the perfect woman for yourself along the way.
Start today: instead of learning some small-minded technique for generating “attraction”, do something that scares you.
Challenge your vision of the world. Stop being boring. Face your fears and grow.
The way to attract women is to become the right “attractive” guy.
Otherwise, you’re just playing games…
P.S. If you want to learn more about how to attract women, check out my article on female psychology where I discuss what naturally attracts men to women, which traits to develop and what you should STOP doing today because it’s only holding you back.