Autonomy: (Greek: Auto-Nomos – nomos meaning law: one who gives oneself his own law) means freedom from external authority.
Alphamale: In social animals, the alpha male or alpha female is the individual in the community whom the others follow and defer to. Where one male and one female fulfill this role, they are referred to as the alpha pair.
Autonomy is central to my teachings here at LSA.
I help me develop skills and lifestyle habits so that you have the freedom from external authorities (and thereby, more attractive to women).
Being “alpha” is something innate, “autonomy” is something you can learn.
I like to focus on what is possible, rather than what is not.
So, can you, in fact, become an alpha male?
The answer is: NO…but, you CAN learn how to be autonomous.
A woman calls you up and flakes on you. How do you respond?
An autonomous response would be to merely conclude that this woman is immature. You move on.
So much of a man’s failure with women stems from a lack of good decisions and an inability of one who gives oneself his own law. When you live your own law, you are masculine, you are in control.
Women intuitively sense where you are internally. They sniff your inner game from a mile away.
If you are living in harmony with your nature, you will attract the RIGHT women (aka, if you are autonomous). If you aren’t, you will repel the right women and attract the WRONG women.
Why can’t pick-up artists keep a relationship? See above.
A man’s nature is his purpose, and the closer you are to living a life directed towards this purpose the more integrity you will have.
On top of this, social skills are the necessary vehicle for communicating and conveying your inner game and your personality.
All of this is so critical to consider repeatedly no matter what stage you are at with women & dating.
Much of my work is dedicated to helping you develop autonomy and get you on the path to becoming more attractive to women. It’s absolutely possible and worthwhile.
Learning gimmicks and routines will get you to a certain level, but true SKILL will bring you the success you really want, spending time with beautiful women around you, and cool friends that know you for you and appreciate that fact.
On that note, I want you to make a decision to get this part of your life handled. It doesn’t necessarily mean coming to work with me, or buying any of my products.
I want you to start making decisions for the betterment of your own life, start pursuing interests that YOU like, rather than what you think is cool.
Finally, simply stop and ask yourself this question:
Are you a REACTOR in the world – do things “happen” to you? OR,
Are you an ACTOR in the world – are you “causing” things to happen?
Which do you think is more attractive to women?
To learn more about autonomy, masculinity and where these things intersect with “attraction”, click the link and check out my in depth podcast on this pretty interesting topic.