Ever been talking with a woman, the conversation is rolling along, you are both laughing and enjoying yourselves and then out of nowhere, the conversation begins sinking faster than the Titanic!? It begins as a numb feeling in the pit of your stomach which works its way up your head. Everything you think to say […]
Hey there – Wanted to pass along another interesting review of my book… This one made me smile as I related a lot to this guy. Jumping through endless hoops just to come back to a simple, intelligent, balanced approach. Anyway, I’ll let him speak: “Hi Stephen, Just picked up a copy of How To Get A […]
One of the questions I used to get a lot once I gave up “pick-up”, was: “But, how are you going to meet women?” In fact, there are various ways to get a girlfriend, with approaching women being the WORST way btw. The best way to get a girlfriend is to have a healthy social […]
The BEST way to meet new women – particularly if you want to get a girlfriend – is through your own social circle. If you want a girlfriend, understanding the dynamics of how to meet women through your social circle is key. Most guys meet new women through their friends, colleagues and other acquaintances. It […]
Got a GREAT mailbag question the other day, and wanted to post it here with my reply. This guy’s note to me was great because it was an ACTUAL report AND he’s looking for help in how to approach women anywhere – as you’ll see. Let’s hear from him (NOTE: my feedback is interspersed with […]
I recently returned from South America, for some R&R. My girlfriend and I had a really amazing time, with some pretty extraordinary adventures and some truly beautiful beaches… A friend of mine recommended a book to me as something to read on the beach. It is called The Last American Man, and is written by […]
The Art of Charm Podcast used to be called the “Pickup Podcast” (this was a number of years ago btw)…
& I was their 10th interview.
It’s still relevant as I dig into my philosophy on building a healthy lifestyle and social circle to meet and attract women.
“You never get a second chance at a first impression?” How many times have you heard that expression? It’s probably doubly true with women. Learning how to make a good first impression on a girl is super important. Very attractive women are highly skilled at “reading men”, and for good reason – they are highly […]
Ever hear of Cliff’s List? It used to be one of the go to resources for PUA related material. Just after I left Project Hollywood in 2004, Cliff interviewed me. I was honored, as every main guy in the community was interviewed by Cliff. (Shortly thereafter, I was interviewed by David DeAngelo – which is […]
In truth, if you meet a woman who is really right for you, connecting with her will be no problem. So much of what is espoused in “The Game” are tactics/techniques to unnaturally create something which, under mentally healthy conditions, happens naturally.
In many instances however, men are un-evolved socially and need to understand the skill that can assist in them presenting themselves in the best light on a date, or in any social situation.