I have received a number of emails this week from guys wanting to know cool ideas for Halloween costumes.
What they are REALLY asking are what are some ways to get attention with their costume, and even have people (read: WOMEN) approach you.
How To Flirt With Women (Skill #2)
Sexual tension is easily the hardest concept to get when working with men who struggle with women, dating and relationships.
Most men lack the ability to understand it, and then how to work with it.
The primary way to influence sexual tension is via flirting.
Personal Style For Men – Skill #7
Looks don't matter, but, your “look” does. Looks are what our genetics have given us, which we have very little control over. Guys who are blessed with good looks are said to be “genetically attractive”.
I have also met others not so genetically fortunate who have massive success because they understand what looks good on them, and how to present themselves in an attractive way. Why is this scenario so advantageous when looking to improve with women and dating?
Recent Seminar Testimonial
OK – so the only reason I am posting this is because the guy said I could, and this came totally unrequested…this totally made my day. This is a recent seminar testimonial I received, from a program given a few months ago here in NYC . These are his words: Stephen, Hey guys, just wanted to […]
For Needy Men: The Solution Isn't What You Think
One of the biggest challenges men face, particularly when they lack a healthy dating and social life is neediness. For needy men, even a small sign of affection or interest from a woman can immediately fire off signals of panic & loss…simply because he lacks both internal validation (most important) and a healthy supply of external […]
Top 10 Project Hollywood PUA Memories
Style (Neil Strauss) was in New York in September to promote his book “The Game”. He asked me to say a few words about Project Hollywood. Unfortunately, I did not have enough time to get to my Top 10 list (below). But, I did save it and I think it's pretty funny even if slightly […]
Attractive Haircuts for Guys
A bit of a departure today, as I want to cover briefly a topic which BAFFLES MOST guys.
Part of my work is in helping men both feel and LOOK their best. So, part of what we do with guys is help them with style and fashion challenges.
MOST guys I see have haircuts which simply don't look good on them. A crime, which is easily fixed…
Why She Won't Call You Back
One of the most frustrating scenarios that many men face in the dating game is when a woman won’t call you back… You’ve worked up your nerve to call her, left a killer message (if you do say so yourself) only to find days passing without a return call from her. There is certainly a […]
First Date Tips – The Lucky 7
“Let’s meet for coffee”, you say. “Sure, sounds great”, says she. “See you at 8pm.” “Great, see you then.” You hang up feeling elated at having confirmed a date with this gorgeous, fascinating woman. You will take her out for coffee, hoping the conversation will be terrific. You hope this leads to a solid connection […]
The Big Picture: The Best Way to Meet Women
Would you be surprised to hear me say that the best way to meet women has nothing to do with “pick-up”? In fact, it has very little to do even with approaching women or lines, tactics and gimmicks. No, the best way to meet women is to cultivate an overall, healthy lifestyle and social circle. […]
