I sort of discovered this skill by observing naturals in action who seemed effortlessly good at attracting women.
I noticed that they never really ask questions (unless they want to) and have what is often referred to as “the gift of gab”.
What they do is quite simply TALK – they are telling someone, indirectly, who they are.
It happens every day, right?
You are on your way to work, occupied with the day ahead, and then she appears, she is right in front of you, and for a moment you feel an impulse to say something.
If you are like most guys out there, you say nothing, she passes you by and you are left wondering…what if?
Your decision in footwear says a lot about you, particularly to women. On a first date, the first thing women notice is a man’s shoes. Likewise, interviewers are trained to notice if the candidate took the time to polish his shoes. Shoes are important. An art history professor of mine once remarked that an art […]
One of my favorite topics for guys is how to be romantic with women, but with power, clarity and confidence. When you begin to live a life of purpose and power, the old behaviors you used to think were “needy” now become “attractive”. It’s less about the behavior, and more about YOU: your vibe, and how […]
Ever feel like a woman is testing you? For example, say she runs late three times in a row when meeting you (when I say late, I mean over 10 minutes btw).
If someone arrives to a date, and is less than 10 minutes late, no big deal. If it is more than 10 minutes…I take note.
Don’t worry, it happens to each and every one of us. We meet a woman, she is gorgeous, intelligent, and seems into us. And then… JUST as we are about to move to kiss her, she throws up her hands and delivers the CLASSIC line: Let’s Just Be Friends (or, as some of us call […]
Many guys are clueless when it comes to reading the signals women send them. In general, women expect men to approach them and initiate contact. How to tell if a girl is interested in you or not boils down your ability to read the often subtle and indirect signals she offers you. An ability to read […]
So, how do you know when to take things to the next level? And, as important, how to be smooth when it's the “right time”?
This is a problem every guy sweats.
In fact, I know a handful of guys who lose sleep over this prior to going out with a girl. Wouldn't you like a clear and easy plan to navigate these special moments? Read on.
The third useful social skill from “The Game” that you should study and learn is storytelling.
What I want to pass on is how to tell a story in a way that captures and leads the imagination, so that it brings her into your world…which is a nice place to be, right?
Note: Some of the venues listed below are no longer open, but the first date advice here is still rock solid and employs a variety of dating skills I’ve honed over the years. Last night I was out with a very hot woman I met through a friend, and we were hanging out in my old […]
