One VERY common challenge that many new guys face in the dating scene is the dreaded flaking.
This is when a woman cancels on your late minute, or even worse, fails to show up (easily the most frustrating thing that has ever happened to me!).
Ever find yourself waiting for your “late” date at the restaurant, wondering if she is even going to show?
Female Attraction… So many words in our culture are tossed around with such a variety of meaning, that it’s a true wonder that we understand each other. This is PARTICULARLY true in the world of dating. One basic concept that all men HAVE to grasp is the nature of ATTRACTION. Attraction, in brief, is simply […]
You might be the coolest guy in the world, with great stories, successful career, killer clothes and an awesome social life.
However, if your home is not equipped with these 10 bachelor pad essentials, that smooth first impression you made will head south as fast as geese in a snowstorm.
A woman should be excited to see your home.
Life is short. It takes balls to live the life you deeply feel is your own. It’s OK to be afraid. It’s not OK to let it win, or much less, let it win day, by day, by day, by day, by day…
It is a question of carving out some space of your own or morphing yourself into the tiny space given.
You are either a force, or a consequence.
What are you?
In socializing, and in particular with women, you have to be willing to take up space.
Being confident enough to take the spotlight for a minute or two is strong and healthy. You must be willing to do this.
In the beginning, it might be uncomfortable but it does improve over time.
If a woman smiles at you from across the room, how do you approach her? She’s practically SCREAMING for you to come and talk to her. But, what is NOW the best way to begin the conversation? Should you use a pick-up line? Before you even begin to move towards her, remember to keep it […]
I was recently in LA, staying with my friend Cameron Teone, and we HAD to return to the Sunset Strip and revisit Project Hollywood.
While we were dining at Mel’s (where else?) we got the idea to quickly film the walk from the diner, up the hill, to the house. Check out the video we shot…
Most women will not approach you. You “get” that, right?
But, they WILL give you signals, or “indicators” of interest. In this day and age it is somewhat taboo for a woman to overtly indicate her interest to a man.
Here is my list of ways she will signal you to approach her.
There are 3 good reasons to approach a woman.
Pay particular attention to the ORDER I put these in, OK?
So, imagine you are on the subway, in a park, in the bookstore, wherever.
You are doing something OTHER than trolling for girls. Here is why you should approach:
Listening…
Yeah, it’s an unsexy, unflashy, seemingly innocently banal…SKILL. And guess what? It’s REALLY important.
Seems too simple, right? Without it, you’re SUNK. Flirting with women and the art of building sexual tension REQUIRES that you be a very very very good listener.
