Your decision in footwear says a lot about you, particularly to women. On a first date, the first thing women notice is a man’s shoes. Likewise, interviewers are trained to notice if the candidate took the time to polish his shoes. Shoes are important. An art history professor of mine once remarked that an art […]
How To Be Romantic (& Stay Cool Too)
One of my favorite topics for guys is how to be romantic with women, but with power, clarity and confidence. When you begin to live a life of purpose and power, the old behaviors you used to think were “needy” now become “attractive”. It’s less about the behavior, and more about YOU: your vibe, and how […]
How To Pass A Shit Test
Ever feel like a woman is testing you? For example, say she runs late three times in a row when meeting you (when I say late, I mean over 10 minutes btw).
If someone arrives to a date, and is less than 10 minutes late, no big deal. If it is more than 10 minutes…I take note.
LJBF – How to Never Hear it Again
Don’t worry, it happens to each and every one of us. We meet a woman, she is gorgeous, intelligent, and seems into us. And then… JUST as we are about to move to kiss her, she throws up her hands and delivers the CLASSIC line: Let’s Just Be Friends (or, as some of us call […]
How To Tell If A Girl Is Interested
Many guys are clueless when it comes to reading the signals women send them. In general, women expect men to approach them and initiate contact. How to tell if a girl is interested in you or not boils down your ability to read the often subtle and indirect signals she offers you. An ability to read […]
Skill #9 – How to be Smooth
So, how do you know when to take things to the next level? And, as important, how to be smooth when it's the “right time”?
This is a problem every guy sweats.
In fact, I know a handful of guys who lose sleep over this prior to going out with a girl. Wouldn't you like a clear and easy plan to navigate these special moments? Read on.
How to Get a Girlfriend Book Excerpt: Storytelling (Skill #3)
The third useful social skill from “The Game” that you should study and learn is storytelling.
What I want to pass on is how to tell a story in a way that captures and leads the imagination, so that it brings her into your world…which is a nice place to be, right?
First Date Advice Using the Lower East Side as a Lens
Note: Some of the venues listed below are no longer open, but the first date advice here is still rock solid and employs a variety of dating skills I’ve honed over the years. Last night I was out with a very hot woman I met through a friend, and we were hanging out in my old […]
Skill #1 – How to Approach Women (aka “Engage”)
con-text (n. ) 1. The part of a text or statement that surrounds a particular word or passage and determines its meaning. 2. The circumstances in which an event occurs; a setting. A number of years ago, I threw out each and every routine that I used to attract women, and instead focused on going […]
How To Get A Girlfriend Testimonial
I just received this awesome testimonial from a guy on the west coast. From time to time guys will send me remarks on my products, for both my book, How To Get A Girlfriend & Natural Attraction, my 7-day audio program. This one though was so positive, I HAD to post it here…please forgive me while I […]