The truth about pick-up might surprise you, and as a former pick-up artist, I'm in the unique position of pulling the curtain back to reveal the real story.
I'm now a dating coach, and I tend to see guys on a regular basis who have “tried” pick-up and are now thoroughly disenchanted and disillusioned by the realities of the PUA community.
It seems to be black or white. People either love the pick-up community, or they loathe it. They either feel it is every man’s right, or that it is morally decrepit. I, for one, know a lot of people not of the community, and have found that there is a viable way to communicate with […]
Men who understand how to be attractive to women embody a certain “isness” which intrigues and compels women… They ARE a certain way and women notice it – usually intuitively, in their bodies. Not in their minds. Attraction has very little to do with what you say, how you stand and what you wear. These are important, but […]
LIFESTYLE…
This is THE main thing that I find myself helping men with the most.
In our one-on-one sessions, we tend to spend a lot of time discussing lifestyle and how focusing on it can create massive leverage in meeting lost of new women…
I briefly watched the Miss Universe pageant last night (anyone else?). I am always amazed at the highest level of physical feminine beauty – there is really something different about it. The most attractive woman in your neighborhood, or office, or social circle etc might be truly beautiful. For me, I am more and more […]
Recently, I got a GREAT question from a friend of ours in the Midwest. This is a topic that plagues a lot of guys, and I am guessing you too. He writes: Dear Stephen, I want to be in a relationship, where sex comes along down the line. I don’t want enter the friend zone […]
The common parlance for the “average guy” who isn’t successful with women is: Average Frustrated Chump (or AFC, for short). This certainly describes me when I got here, and thanks to the community, that has all changed…dramatically. I’m now married to the woman of my dreams, and had a helluva lot of fun along the […]
99% of the guys who read this blog, any web-board, attend any seminar/workshop or seek out mentorship are seeking a magic pill for the challenges they face. Seems like a high number? It isn’t. They want to learn how to get better with women, but they don’t want to face themselves in the way which […]
Based on years of research, along with countless hours of confusion, I feel, alas, as if I have at least begun to understand women.
I can thank the school of hard knocks for that wisdom…
This post will start a series of studies on differing “types” helping men to better understand women and how/why they operate.
This article focuses on the “hottie” mindset…what makes her tick and why YOU want her.
