Stephen’s philosophy is really important for guys to hear – every possibility is open for you and you have the possibility to live an extraordinary life.

— Neil Strauss, Author of “The Game”

For years, the concept of “attraction” eluded me. I thought it was hidden in the next great trick or bar line needed to meet and flirt with a woman. I thought it was something I needed to “build” or “create" so that she would desire me. When I finally learned that true, enduring attraction was not something I could manufacture, but rather something I embodied by virtue of how I chose to live my life, my beliefs and my internal self image, my success with women skyrocketed and my entire dating life changed.

 

Lasting, powerful, healthy relationship rest firmly upon this bedrock. You and she are naturally attracted to each other, by virtue of who you are. Your work, therefore, is to become the most empowered version of that, present it via specific and elegant social skills, and then go for the women you truly, deeply desire.

 

In “How to Get a Girlfriend”, I unlock these primal elements, revealing a path to becoming the most attractive possible version of yourself, painting an entirely new and fresh vision of attraction, dating and relationships.

 

There are 7 steps to this process, which begins with you: discovering your purpose and direction in life, cultivating real masculinity and living a life of authentic adventure. Around this core, I show you next how to build a lifestyle and social circle to support, enliven and balance you. I will then coach you on specific social skills and effective external techniques to use to demonstrate this reality and to attract women. This combination of core beliefs and practiced skills prove to be a resoundingly durable and natural solution to a man’s dating challenges. It’s elegantly laid out across over 230 pages, with 7 different steps in the process.

 

This book makes a pivotal shift from more standard ‘dating advice’ to outline a mindset and methodology to help men break free of doubt and take specific actions in order to enjoy lasting change in this important area of life. Join the thousands of men I have coached in building a more empowered life from the insights shared in this guide to finding an amazing woman for a relationship.

 

In honor of the launch of the new Lifestyle Arts website, and the new 5th edition of the eBook, you will receive a free bonus audio course with your purchase, the “Natural Attraction Coaching Sessions”. In these 6+ hours of audio, I lead you through my unique and in depth lifestyle and social circle design process which is orchestrated to help you meet more beautiful women, naturally.