The Single Most Important Social Skill For Attracting Women On The Planet Without Question Is:
Flirting (of course)
Flirting is the art of poking fun at someone playfully, while simultaneously amplifying sexual tension. Learning how to flirt is part science, and mostly art.
Meaning: You won’t get really good at flirting by reading this page (but it’s a great start)
Rather: You Must Learn This By Experience.
Treat her like your younger sister, who is slightly quirky, and maybe in need of extra help.
Or, misinterpret her actions as her flirting with you, misbehaving, or otherwise up to “no good”.
This playful teasing is known as flirting. Ideally, you can blend in a bit of cockiness, which when combined with humor is an explosive combination.
One note on being cocky don’t overdo it. How many times have I seen a guy go out to a bar or club and not notice if the woman is having fun talking with him.
He will always ruin his chances by not paying attention, and blow the opportunity by not toning down the cockiness.
This is a sign of both low social intelligence, and insecurity.
Guys who are purely cocky are insecure and considered arrogant. They have to bring down someone else to make themselves feel good.
Now, it is fine to be cocky, but you better mix in the humor.
Your gauge should be whether or not she is having FUN. Otherwise, she will think you are a jerk.
Flirting is the perfect way to maintain and continue a conversation with a woman.
During the hook phase (phase 2 in my 3-step process), you should rely on flirting until she is asking questions of you
It helps to hook her by revealing your sense of humor while creating sexual tension. Another way to think of flirting is that you are purposely creating a negative emotion.
If you combine it with humor, this slight insult will come across as flirting.
You might call her a brat.
This is a negative thing to say, but if you do so with a smile, it instantly becomes flirtatious.
Get out and practice!
Click here to read part 2 of my “How to Flirt” series for men