Me in PUA days…as Playboy (with Courtney Love)
A rainy Tuesday in NYC calls for…a fun/nutso story from my archive
During the Project Hollywood experiment, I was known as PlayboyLA, or just Playboy (the name Neil used for me in The Game).
I used to work for a pick-up company, and the following is a PUA lay report from those times (posted on ASF). I was giving a program in NYC. This report takes place over a few days.
I’ve decided to post these sporadically (Tuesday’s until the end of the year), to give a sense of me when I was a PUA. I think they are interesting and fun to read. I also hope you can see from these what sort of skill level I’ve attained, and how seriously I take this area of my life.
Just so you understand the “code”, here are a few explanations before we start:
HB = Hot Babe (classy, I know…)
LMR = Last Minute Resistance (REAL classy, I know…)
Ninja PUA = If you can figure out who this is “code” for, you can win a prize…:-)
I hope you enjoy!
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April 2004
Me and the boys are here in NYC this week, preparing for a weekend of seminar/workshop. I was privileged to work with some super cool guys from the CT Lair last weekend in New Haven as well. Right now, I really feel that my skills and material are so tight that any approach will be successful. As Mystery says, competence breeds confidence…onward.
I was walking to meet some old friends for dinner when I spotted a super cute young HB seated on the steps at Union Square. I noticed her energy, and beauty right away – bam, it hit me. So, I approach with Style’s Jealous GF opener. I knew I needed to sit asap, so I ran the first part of the opener and then sat down.
I was fortunate, as I could feel in my gut that my seating process was awkward here. Something that I have found to be helpful is to continue speaking as you sit…it distracts them, and keeps them topic-focussed as you make yourself a bit more permanent in their world (by sitting)…anyway, i got lucky here. I then run a new IVD I am working out, and it worked on her. Then some fun routines, and chit chat – I eject with a very solid number close after 10 minutes.
I call her the next day, and we decide to meet at this lovely bakery in the west village. I make a point to take myself out of the dinner frame all together. I never want dinner to even be a possibility on a day2. It is always awkward, and if the date sucks you are stuck waiting for food and forcing convoy on someone.
PB: “So, I have a dinner meeting just before I see you, so I will have eaten. Let’s be sure that we get something sweet, and a nice cup of coffee then to satisfy my need for dessert”
This always works, and the girls always appreciate it that I take the lead here. I really think that part of building comfort and trust is managing the logistics smoothly, really take charge here…when you do so, you subcommunicate that you are thoughtful, that hanging with you is fun, and stress free. You really have to be the man here.
I arrive a half hour late, as I was hanging with the NYC Lair talking about some of the latest developments from Ninja PUA, myself and others. We gather our dessert, coffee and go sit in a nearby park. The convo is absolutely solid – this girl and I have a killer chemistry together…sorta bummed I have to leave on Monday really. I have to say, evenings like this are truly why I am in this game – she is super cute, sophisticated, very open and intelligent, and her sense of humor is totally in tune with mine…a rarity. Sometimes, a day 2 is a lot of work, for many reasons – not this one – loads of fun. These are great also because I invariably create new stuff on the fly because the girls inspire my creativity.
It was kind of chilly, so I propose that we go somewhere warmer.
PB: “Wow, you are shivering, maybe we should go somewhere where it is warmer”
HBPB: “Cool – sounds like a good idea”
PB: “Why don’t we head to my friends house (where I am staying) and throw on a video? We could watch an old Hitchcock film…he has a new boxed set amazing films – I love them”
HBPB: (hesitates) Well, we could do that – there is also a cool bar nearby, lets go have a drink there”
PB: Sure – sounds nice…though, I don’t drink, and please don’t try to think you will get me drunk etc…I am a very good Southern boy, and we play by the rules young lady.
Here – she tells me that she is not ready for isolation just yet, and proposes another venue to hang out. I concede, as that is the only way to continue the sarge for this evening…but, I take the frame back in the end by playing her role “I am a good boy, play by the rules blah blah…”
We head to a very cool local bar, which has very smooth sofas in the back. In the corner opposite us, we see a couple making out
PB: Ugh…I hate PDA (public display of affection), don’t you?
HBPB: Yes – how embarrassing for her…he shouldn’t do that
PB: I agree…
Seems fairly innocuous, but I made a point of doing this because I could tell that she was not a PDA girl (I am not either, really, unless I have to be to accelerate a sarge) and wanted to create more trust with her.
Then, new routine #1:
PB: In honor of them, lets write a love poem about them. I will start by writing one line, and then you give the second line. Then we take a 10 minute break, as we don’t want our evening to be entirely consumed by the lovers in the corner…then, we do it again. By the end of the night, we will have a nice poem. Oh yeah, and the lines MUST rhyme…sound OK?
I like doing things which are unconventional, and interactive to bring me closer to the girl and to show her different sides of me. The other day, I had an instadate in New Haven, CT. I walked in and the girl was reading her book. I knew I had to wait in line for 10 minutes to get my coffee. I didn’t want to waste the 10 minutes…so, how to keep her in my frame while I waited in line? I handed her my pad of paper, and said – “Lets draw a picture. You start, when I return, I will finish it” She loved it – and when I returned, she had an amazing picture of a tree with a woman’s face hidden behind it (VERY revealing of her). I took it, and finished it by taking the lips of the woman and extending them into a smile…
Anyway, the evening proceeded, and our chemistry was amazing. Truly, it was a sarge that involved mostly staying out of the way of the obvious escalation between the two of us, and having fun along the way. She is very keen on writing, so I had us do a favorite game of mine – the poetry game:
PB: You like poetry I can see. So, I will write my name vertically on the page. Then, I want you to write words going horizontally that describe me which either start with, or contain the letter in my name. Then, I will do the same for you.
With artsy girls, or intelligent girls, this is a very fun, interactive routine. With ditzy, scattered girls…you will lose them with this IME.
Knowing I will be leaving town soon, I merely state the obvious:
PB: Well, we are at a crossroads.
HBPB: How is that?
PB: I leave Monday, and my weekend is rather hectic. Also, I have a lot of old friends to see while I am in NYC. We can either continue our wonderful evening together at my friends house by watching a movie, or we can part ways, and potentially not see each other before I leave. I can accept your answer either way, though I do plan to watch a movie when I get home, and it would be quite nice to do so with you
She smiled, chuckled:
HBPB: You are so different than anyone I have ever met…OK, let’s watch a movie.
By now, we are 3 hours in. We get to my friends house, chill on the couch for a while…she massages my back (AMAZING!) and I do hers (I need improvement, but not bad!). At the end of the massage, she is completely relaxed, and leaning into me. I lean back, and her face in fully exposed beneath mine:
PB: I was right…again…
HBPB: (chuckles) What do you mean?
PB: I had this feeling that your face was prettier the closer you got to it…and, I was right.
HBPB: (blushes) You are very sweet.
PB: Did you know, you can fully appreciate the softness of someone’s skin by gently rubbing your nose on their face.
HBPB: No, I didn’t know that.
PB: Here I will show you.
So, I gently take the tip of my nose and skim the skin of her face…do it elegantly…
PB: Nice, eh? Now, do mine
HBPB: Sure
She does so.
PB: (smiling) Of course, the most sensitive part of anyone’s face is their lips…obviously…I can appreciate your skin most fully by touching it with my lips…like this…
I guess I could’ve just kissed her, but I am a romantic and love using words and interesting ways to escalate. It is not Style’s Evolution Phase Shift…but, it worked for me…we proceeded to make out, escalate..then it was time for the frontal massage 🙂
I received no LMR…probably because we had so much in common and it was really a blast being with her. I love women who make me feel romantic and masculine. She did both, while being strong, independent and feminine. Why play the game? For last night, of course…
Lastly, I walked her to the taxi after a wonderful night. On my way home, I spotted a beautiful Blonde HB walking her dog…sarged her…got her number…turns out she is a very famous author! Who would have known?
Playboy.
That’s it guys hope you enjoyed that. I feel like I am showing old home movies here…a real blast from the past!
I always like to do interactive things with women I am on a date with – thus, the poetry game I used above.
Note: want to learn more about my days as a pick-up artist & the (now) infamous Project Hollywood? Click the link and see the video of my return to the mansion + more.
Over ‘n Out…
