Lifestyle is the “missing link” in the dating game for men. The choices I make about my time, activities, priorities and social connections inform inner aspects such as confidence and self-esteem, while also helping me form a healthy, thriving social circle. When I strive to improve with women and dating, I will be challenged. Focusing on lifestyle, therefore, allows me to grow as a man, meet new and interesting people and help me cultivate a healthy, positive attitude towards life and others. No dating gimmick or social technique can impact my dating, social and romantic life as focusing on building a healthy, dynamic and attractive lifestyle. In this episode of the Lifestyle Arts Podcast, Stephen Nash breaks down the 6 fundamentals for men to follow in building an attractive lifestyle and improving their dating lives.
Dating in NYC can be super tough – WHY? Is there a solution to becoming more successful with women & dating here without resorting to lame pick-up tactics? Indeed there is. Episode #23 of the Lifestyle Arts podcast features Stephen Nash discussing the singular issue leading to the growing challenges in meeting and dating women in NYC, LA and other major, urban areas. He also discusses the solution, which essentially simulates what has ALWAYS worked to help bring men and women together – the growth of an expansive, supporting and thriving community.
Stephen lays out his top 24 tips for how to get a girlfriend. These are listed chronologically – so, everything from building strong inner game and confidence, to approaching and meeting new women (including online dating), specific social skills and dating tips, all the way through having sex with a woman for the first time.
The 11 most important actions you can take to improve your success with women and dating. If, like most men, you’re busy with life, work and fun, doing what is proven to work and eliminating everything else is not only important, it’s a lifesaver. The 80/20 principle states that 80% of our results in life come from 20% of our actions. In dating, what is that crucial 20%? Which skills and actions are worth the time, and which are a huge waste? I cover the 11 specific things to do including the only technique you will ever need to meet new women, 4 killer online dating tips, how to leverage your social circle and more. I also discuss exactly you should stop doing right now (like anything related to ‘pick-up’ for example), saving you massive amounts of time and energy so that you can improve your success with women, build confidence and self-esteem, and meet the right women for you in the most efficient and effective way possible.
Ever see a beautiful girl and want to approach her but aren’t really clear on what to say? AND, do you dig serious adrenaline rushes?
Then my direct approach is the technique for you. Simple, elegant and clear – it’s the ultimate “carpe diem”.
Stephen takes a deep dive into the external attraction factors, namely:
Personal style &
He also offers action steps for improving each area in your own life. This is Part 1 of 2 podcasts which serve to flesh out the broader “attraction factors” between men & women.
Here’s a life for you:
Struggle with women, then apply yourself and get really, really good at it;
Begin teaching others how to get good at it, and build a nice business around helping others;
Become location independent, traveling the world, and expanding your mind in the process;
Meet a great woman to share it all with, building a life together that is expanded by the presence of the other.
The validation gap is the super critical space between what you say or do with a woman and how she responds.
Most guys seek validation from women, and constantly seek to fill this validation gap with “routines” or “better routines” or “obsessing about what to say/email/voicemail/text her…” – sound familiar?
This is the death trap for men and you MUST find a better way of filling the gap or you will unconsciously seek validation from women…which kills your chances with them.
This podcast features the incomparable Adam Lyons, aka AFC Adam, who is easily the most positive and upbeat guy I’ve ever spoken with.
Incredibly, our conversation happened as he was heading to the doctor with his now pregnant girlfriend – so there was a bit of excitement on the other end of the line.
Anyway, enjoy this one man – it’s terrific, massive value given from Adam (ie – why you should throw a speed-dating event), and tons to learn by osmosis via his energy and attitude.
I thoroughly enjoyed this chat, mostly because Paul’s life and my own track so similarly:
~ We hit Pick-Up hard and found massive success with it
~ We then met someone we really liked and transitioned into a long-term relationship
~ He’s engaged and I’m married…
So, what’s it like looking back on a successful dating life now being in a lasting, happy relationship?