“He out alpha’d you dude”, Tyler said.
“Huh??”
“Dude, he out alpha’d you…that’s why he got the girl!!”
I had no clue what Owen was talking about. TD, aka Owen, was the first person to introduce me to the “Alpha Male” concept.
(TD = TylerDurden, from “The Game”)
I was baffled at the beginning…but not anymore:
What I want to share with you today is something I call the “natural attraction code” or “code of the natural”.
Know the phrase about teaching a man to fish, rather than giving him fish…and he eats for a lifetime?? (er, something like that) Well, it applies here – see that?
These 11 tenets are a way of life that I suggest you start following TONIGHT, OK? Here’s the list:
First, some definitions:
Autonomy: (Greek: Auto-Nomos – nomos meaning law: one who gives oneself his own law) means freedom from external authority.
Alphamale: In social animals, the alpha male or alpha female is the individual in the community whom the others follow and defer to. Where one male and one female fulfill this role, they are referred to as the alpha pair.
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