In the first part of this article, we talked about ways the seduction community can be helpful to a person. It provides a reference point and gives people a road to follow.
It provides a path whereas before the person was driving blind.
Giving men a starting point is great. It’s helpful!
So then, what’s the problem?
Problems arise when what started as a venture to enable you to become better in attracting women suddenly becomes a religion.
Pros and Cons of the Seduction Community
Let’s talk about the polarizing opposites of dating advice. Occasionally, I stick my head in various Self-help forums just to get an idea of what sort of advice is out there and repeatedly, I am horrified.
There is the quiet guy who has this girl in his social circle, and she barely knows he exists…
If you are on the Internet seeking dating advice, chances are good that you have come across a concept called cocky/funny. About 6 years ago, a gentleman started writing countless articles and newsletters promoting the concept of cocky/funny.
Like you, I was excited about it. It was a novel concept that seemed interesting and seemed to get a reaction out of people. It also seemed to piss off quite a few women at the same time. Over the years, I ran into a lot of guys whose chances with women were being destroyed by cocky/funny as it was being taught.
