Don’t worry, it happens to all of us. We meet a woman, she is gorgeous, intelligent, and seems into us. And then, just as we are about to move to kiss her, she throws up her hands and delivers the CLASSIC line: Let’s Just Be Friends Ugh our hearts drop, we feel embarrassed, and our masculinity […]
Qualifying women is a key skill for men who are actively dating and seeking a long-term relationship. Doing so requires a deft touch, a bit of class and the ability to be direct.
For many guys who have previously lacked success in dating they often find themselves being qualified by women. They are “chosen” by women (this definitely used to describe me btw).
One of the questions I used to get a lot once I gave up “pick-up”, was: “But, how are you going to meet women?” In fact, there are various ways to get a girlfriend, with approaching women being the WORST way btw. The best way to get a girlfriend is to have a healthy social […]
“Let’s meet for coffee”, you say. “Sure, sounds great”, says she. “See you at 8pm.” “Great, see you then.” You hang up feeling elated at having confirmed a date with this gorgeous, fascinating woman. You will take her out for coffee, hoping the conversation will be terrific. You hope this leads to a solid connection […]
One of my favorite topics for guys is how to be romantic with women, but with power, clarity and confidence. When you begin to live a life of purpose and power, the old behaviors you used to think were “needy” now become “attractive”. It’s less about the behavior, and more about YOU: your vibe, and how […]
So, how do you know when to take things to the next level? And, as important, how to be smooth when it's the “right time”?
This is a problem every guy sweats.
In fact, I know a handful of guys who lose sleep over this prior to going out with a girl. Wouldn't you like a clear and easy plan to navigate these special moments? Read on.
Note: Some of the venues listed below are no longer open, but the first date advice here is still rock solid and employs a variety of dating skills I’ve honed over the years. Last night I was out with a very hot woman I met through a friend, and we were hanging out in my old […]
I briefly watched the Miss Universe pageant last night (anyone else?). I am always amazed at the highest level of physical feminine beauty – there is really something different about it. The most attractive woman in your neighborhood, or office, or social circle etc might be truly beautiful. For me, I am more and more […]
Recently, I got a GREAT question from a friend of ours in the Midwest. This is a topic that plagues a lot of guys, and I am guessing you too. He writes: Dear Stephen, I want to be in a relationship, where sex comes along down the line. I don’t want enter the friend zone […]