Understanding when and how to touch a girl says a lot about a guy. As dating tips go, it might seem like a small deal. It isn’t.
If you touch her arm, her hand, her shoulder, her face…this is all what we insiders often call “kino”.
Now, there are good and not-do-good types of kino. We want to focus on the good type – playful kino…
For many men, it’s a tricky question: how to flirt with girls, but naturally – so that it doesn’t go too far into “cocky” and not far enough from the “friend zone”.
This is the art of flirting…and one that I love and think, with a little guidance, you will too.
Don’t worry, it happens to all of us. We meet a woman, she is gorgeous, intelligent, and seems into us. And then, just as we are about to move to kiss her, she throws up her hands and delivers the CLASSIC line: Let’s Just Be Friends Ugh our hearts drop, we feel embarrassed, and our masculinity […]
Ever been talking with a woman, the conversation is rolling along, you are both laughing and enjoying yourselves and then out of nowhere, the conversation begins sinking faster than the Titanic!? It begins as a numb feeling in the pit of your stomach which works its way up your head. Everything you think to say […]
Got a GREAT mailbag question the other day, and wanted to post it here with my reply. This guy’s note to me was great because it was an ACTUAL report AND he’s looking for help in how to approach women anywhere – as you’ll see. Let’s hear from him (NOTE: my feedback is interspersed with […]
Sexual tension is easily the hardest concept to get when working with men who struggle with women, dating and relationships.
Most men lack the ability to understand it, and then how to work with it.
The primary way to influence sexual tension is via flirting.
I sort of discovered this skill by observing naturals in action who seemed effortlessly good at attracting women.
I noticed that they never really ask questions (unless they want to) and have what is often referred to as “the gift of gab”.
What they do is quite simply TALK – they are telling someone, indirectly, who they are.
Ever feel like a woman is testing you? For example, say she runs late three times in a row when meeting you (when I say late, I mean over 10 minutes btw).
If someone arrives to a date, and is less than 10 minutes late, no big deal. If it is more than 10 minutes…I take note.
Don’t worry, it happens to each and every one of us. We meet a woman, she is gorgeous, intelligent, and seems into us. And then… JUST as we are about to move to kiss her, she throws up her hands and delivers the CLASSIC line: Let’s Just Be Friends (or, as some of us call […]
The third useful social skill from “The Game” that you should study and learn is storytelling.
What I want to pass on is how to tell a story in a way that captures and leads the imagination, so that it brings her into your world…which is a nice place to be, right?
