Fresh off his wedding and honeymoon, Paul Janka candidly discusses the new feeling of being married. We discuss how he met his wife (hint: cold approach), dealing with challenges in a long-term relationship (2nd hint: communication), his wedding ring, how being a bachelor prepared him for marriage & much, much more. Oh, and we talk about his recent wedding & honeymoon, and how powerful it is to say your vows surrounded by the people you love. Powerful, revealing & emotional talk by two mature men. Enjoy.
LSA 030: Christian Hudson, The Social Man
Christian Hudson has been in the dating advice for men community for over 10 years. In that time he has gone from beginner to expert, from a guy eager to learn to a man willing to share his wisdom.
In this chat, we discuss: the traits every guy should develop to become fully expressed, what to cover on a first date, how adventure and attraction intersect, how the dating scene has evolved from ‘pick-up’ gimmicks to true & enduring masculine development.
Also, we talk about books, lots and lots of books…
LSA 029: A Simple Plan for Meeting New Women
You are currently 3 simple steps away from meeting and securing a date with any new woman you see. What are these steps and how does one execute an approach in an elegant, mature way? In this week’s podcast, Stephen reveals his model which doesn’t require guys to learn endless scripts or lines to execute. It also won’t protect you from feeling fear or nerves either. Learn why nerves are so crucial, and how showing them a little is GOOD when meeting a woman for the first time. Too often, we overthink and over analyze the important things in life – all in a way to protect and defend us from fear and failure. Listen in as Stephen reveals this simple plan, and begin using it today to meet new women in your life. Also, pay attention to the other info shared as additional resources to help you meet more women.
LSA 027: Dating Over 40, 5 Tips (+ a VERY Stern Warning) for Men
Dating over 40 might be the toughest time in life for men to find a long-term relationship & this is for very specific reasons. Stephen Nash explains why this is, and nails down 5 specific things for me to focus on to find success + the true “golden rule” that every mature man must follow in the dating game. Also in this episode are some scary tales of what women in their mid to upper 30’s have done to try to get pregnant. This is a must listen for guys over 40, seeking a lasting relationship.
LSA 026: Top 10 Must Read Dating Books for Men
The definitive list of books for men to read who want to improve their success with women and dating. NYC & San Diego-based dating coach Stephen Nash walks you through the list and discusses each of the 10, revealing why they are so uniquely helpful for men. A few of these are new for 2015, and his #1 book is the true “manual” for the modern day man.
LSA 024: 6 Lifestyle Fundamentals for Attracting Women
Lifestyle is the “missing link” in the dating game for men. The choices I make about my time, activities, priorities and social connections inform inner aspects such as confidence and self-esteem, while also helping me form a healthy, thriving social circle. When I strive to improve with women and dating, I will be challenged. Focusing on lifestyle, therefore, allows me to grow as a man, meet new and interesting people and help me cultivate a healthy, positive attitude towards life and others. No dating gimmick or social technique can impact my dating, social and romantic life as focusing on building a healthy, dynamic and attractive lifestyle. In this episode of the Lifestyle Arts Podcast, Stephen Nash breaks down the 6 fundamentals for men to follow in building an attractive lifestyle and improving their dating lives.
LSA 023: Dating in NYC, Challenges & Solutions
Dating in NYC can be super tough – WHY? Is there a solution to becoming more successful with women & dating here without resorting to lame pick-up tactics? Indeed there is. Episode #23 of the Lifestyle Arts podcast features Stephen Nash discussing the singular issue leading to the growing challenges in meeting and dating women in NYC, LA and other major, urban areas. He also discusses the solution, which essentially simulates what has ALWAYS worked to help bring men and women together – the growth of an expansive, supporting and thriving community.
LSA 022: Steve Mayeda Interview – “The Sexual Life”
The Sexual Life with Steve Mayeda. Steve joins Stephen Nash on this week’s Lifestyle Arts podcast to discuss the sexual life, masculinity, community, relationships, sex, kids…you name it. Learn all about his remarkable journey, from shilling out every last cent for a pick-up program nearly 8 years ago to now leading seminars empowering men to experience their own wild success with women, dating and in life.
How to Get a Girlfriend – 24 Tips
Stephen lays out his top 24 tips for how to get a girlfriend. These are listed chronologically – so, everything from building strong inner game and confidence, to approaching and meeting new women (including online dating), specific social skills and dating tips, all the way through having sex with a woman for the first time.
LSA 020: The 11 “80/20” Actions That Drive Your Dating Success
The 11 most important actions you can take to improve your success with women and dating. If, like most men, you’re busy with life, work and fun, doing what is proven to work and eliminating everything else is not only important, it’s a lifesaver. The 80/20 principle states that 80% of our results in life come from 20% of our actions. In dating, what is that crucial 20%? Which skills and actions are worth the time, and which are a huge waste? I cover the 11 specific things to do including the only technique you will ever need to meet new women, 4 killer online dating tips, how to leverage your social circle and more. I also discuss exactly you should stop doing right now (like anything related to ‘pick-up’ for example), saving you massive amounts of time and energy so that you can improve your success with women, build confidence and self-esteem, and meet the right women for you in the most efficient and effective way possible.