I used to HATE it when a woman cancel our date at the last minute, or – even worse – flake out by never even showing up in the first place. Want to eliminate flaking by women? I hear ya…here’s my take. A buddy of mine and I spent some time together on the phone last […]
What’s sarging (you might ask)? Be glad you don’t know.
Basically, it’s where an aspiring or “good” PUA (pick-up artist) goes out on the town prowling for women.
The location: Project Hollywood. I had been living there for just about six weeks. I was living as a world-renowned pick-up artist…
I was recently going through some old notebooks and stumbled across a diary entry from Project Hollywood. As I read it, I could feel the sensations return to me and re experienced the truth of being a ‘world-class’ pick-up artist.
It’s not a pretty picture.
In the first part of this article, we talked about ways the seduction community can be helpful to a person. It provides a reference point and gives people a road to follow.
It provides a path whereas before the person was driving blind.
Giving men a starting point is great. It’s helpful!
So then, what’s the problem?
Problems arise when what started as a venture to enable you to become better in attracting women suddenly becomes a religion.
Pros and Cons of the Seduction Community
Let’s talk about the polarizing opposites of dating advice. Occasionally, I stick my head in various Self-help forums just to get an idea of what sort of advice is out there and repeatedly, I am horrified.
There is the quiet guy who has this girl in his social circle, and she barely knows he exists…
I had some dinner Tuesday night with some old friends, and then slipped off to return to Cameron Teone’s (where I am staying) for the night. I was exhausted from jet-lag, and looking forward to a long rest. But, I could see the Sunset Strip in the L.A. distance. In a haze at the foot of The Hills, I could barely make out the old buildings I knew so well 5 years ago.
I was heading back to Project Hollywood…
This post could be called: the opposite of How To Get A Girlfriend. Today I want to discuss a phenomenon in the dating world called oneitis. Ever hear of it? Or, worse yet – ever experience it?? Ugh, I hope not man. This is where you, the guy, become so obsessed with a woman that […]
Wanted to pass along today a story from my archive…
Just to show you what I used to be like, so you can appreciate how far I’ve come!
During the Project Hollywood experiment (almost four years ago – WOW), I was known as PlayboyLA, or just Playboy, which was the name Neil Strauss used for me in The Game.
A rainy Tuesday in NYC calls for…a fun/nutso story from my archive During the Project Hollywood experiment, I was known as PlayboyLA, or just Playboy (the name Neil used for me in The Game). I used to work for a pick-up company, and the following is a PUA lay report from those times (posted on […]
Coming from someone who used to use pua routines (aka pick-up artist routines) ad nauseum, the statement I am about to make may seem preposterous, but I will make it anyway: You don’t need pua routines or gimmicks to attract women. Or to put more clearly: You don’t need routines to attract women in fact, if you […]