If you find yourself often wondering, obsessing or predominantly focused on what to say to women, or how to talk to women, you, my friend, are barking up the wrong tree.
Sure, it’s important, but nowhere NEAR as important as the YOU that is saying it.
What do women find attractive?
Energy > words
The energy that is attractive is a calm, secure, focused, driven, MASCULINE energy.
This cannot be conveyed with words, it can only be conveyed by YOU and your presence.
In fact, if the right guy, with the right energy, approached a girl, she is going to respond positively to him regardless of what he says.
If a guy with angry, withdrawn, off-balance and uncentered energy approaches a girl and says EXACTLY the right words to her…she will NEVER respond positively to him.
It’s not about the words. It’s about energy. So, stop worrying about what to say.
Way too many guys spend months, even years, focused on what to say to women (memorizing lines, gimmicks, routines etc) never realizing that having dating success has basically nothing to do with this.
Instead, focus on YOU.
What are you doing with your life? Are you contributing to the world? Are you chasing something meaningful? Do you take care of yourself? Is your attitude filled with gratitude and happiness each day, or, are you frustrated and bitter? What is it like to be in your presence?
Focus on yourself and develop real confidence by really LIVING, then the things you say to women will not only be the RIGHT things to say but they will also be said with the right energy. This leads to real attraction.
If you want women in your world, focus on the WORLD that you are inviting them into.
Is your world a good place to be, or not?
That is the only question that matters to her.
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It’s remarkably simple, and once you’ve mastered those, you can move on to building what actually attracts women…
YOU.
